I get by with a little help from my family, friends, and blends…

This week I’m gonna get sappy on you guys…  This week I am thankful for YOU!  I want to thank all of you who read LAB on a daily, or random, basis for the overwhelming support that you have provided me with and the opportunities that have arisen, especially recently.  I started writing LAB last fall as my “online diary,” took a break through the summer to focus on bridal duties, and since being back I couldn’t be happier!

Isn’t it crazyyy how strangers can somehow feel like instant friends?  Hellooo blends :)   I think it’s maybe because a lot of times bloggers use their blogs as a space to express what’s really on their minds and in their hearts, while in real life [aka beyond the computer] people are often timid to express their true thoughts, in fear of judgement.

In the past I held a lot in.  I censored my thoughts and kept my emotions to myself because I didn’t want to offend anyone.  I put a smile on and went with the flow.  But over the years I’ve gotten better with expressing my thoughts and opinions because of a little help from my family and friends.  They have encouraged me to express myself and have stood by my side through the happies and the sads…  I am still smiling and going with the flow per se, but I’m doing so at my own pace and to the beat of my own drum.

Life is like a roller coaster.  It’s full of highs and lows, don’t just go along for the ride.

For example, when Ryan and I first started dating I would joke with him by saying “take it or leave it!”  By no means did I want him to leave, but rather I wanted him to like me for me.  I wanted him to appreciate my quirks, laugh at my jokes, and cherish the moments we had together.  And guess what, he put a ring on it and said “I do”…  In my mind that means he officially took it to life!

Thank you Jessie for hosting another wonderful link-up anddd thank you, thank you, thank you Marita from It’s a Beautiful Life, Sarah from pickyrunner, and Robyn from the Real Life RD for nominating me for the liebster award- I am beyond flattered and honored!  So now y’all wanna know a little more about me?

Here are the rules…

  1. Write 11 random facts about yourself
  2. Answer the 11 questions given by the person who nominated you
  3. Create 11 new questions
  4. Nominate 11 bloggers and mention them in your post
  5. Thank the person that nominated you and tell the people you’ve nominated

11 Random Facts about Me:

1.  I ♥ pancakes hardcore.  It isn’t a secret.  Scroll up a bit and look to the right [my Instagram] for proof.  P.S.  New recipe coming soon!

2.  My favorite color is pink, but lime green is a close runner-up.  Throughout middle school my room was pink and after we moved in high school my room was light lime green…  Think Lily Pulitzer, those were my sheets [ha]!

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3.  I insisted on having pink + lime green bands on my braces, unless it was a holiday and you betcha I had orange + black for Halloween or red + green for Christmas.  Oh and by the way, I had braces three times, yes in high school *nerd alert.*

4.  If it wasn’t for blogging I probably wouldn’t be obsessed with some of the foods that I now eat on a daily basis.  I haven’t gotten too “crazy” or played with protein powder, but pumpkin, flax seeds, peanut flour, shredded coconut, and nut butters make their way into many of my meals.  I cannot remember what life was like before without them!

5.  I typed “butt butters” 3 times before correctly typing *nut* butters above.

6.  I was adopted at birth.  I have no memories of it and call my momma and dad my parents but sometimes I wonder what it would be like to meet my birth parents.  Crazy story: my sophomore year in college my birth mother’s sister contacted me via Facebook.  I.was.in.shock.  We haven’t stayed in touch but I still can’t get over how crazy it was- it felt like straight out of a Lifetime movie!

7.  My dream job is to someday be a wedding planner.  I love planning events, seeing people in love, and all of the joy that surrounds weddings…  Eek, it’s such a beautiful event!

8.  I have a bad habit of trying to fit as many things as possible into a day, thus I am usually late to things.  I know it’s really bad but I’m working on it.  Ryan always factors in a few buffer minutes whenever we’re supposed to be somewhere because on my way out the door I tend to get distracted.  The blanket needs to be folded, the dishes need to be cleaned, clothes need to be picked up and put away…

9.  My favorite numbers are 20 and 44.

10.  I think of Charlie like a son.  I had a puppy growing up but this time feels different.  I feel protective and motherly and want to make sure that he’s well cared for.  I convinced Ryan to let him sleep at the end of our bed a few months ago and over the course of time he’s wiggled his way up.  Now he sleeps right with us, sometimes under the sheets or curls up under our arm.  He’s a bit of a bed hog but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

11.  September will forever be my favorite month: my birthday and our wedding

Rather than doing multiple posts, I thought I’d combine all the questions into one long list [*ahem* hehe Sarah], bear with me…  Here we go:

1.  What’s your favorite way to spend a day?  Hm, my ideal day would include lots of laughing and relaxing.  Time with my family and friends, a sweat session, tasty eats, and maybe a movie, some shopping, and possibly a little cooking?

2.  Do you have a hobby?  If so, what is it?  I love to sweat and to cook.  Not both at the same time, but each individually…  I’m not a rock star at either by any means, but both of them allow me to express myself and enjoy some personal time.

3.  What is your favorite type of food?  I could live off of carbs for life.  Bread, cereal, pancakes, produce, any and all sound good to me!

4.  If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?  I’d love to live somewhere warm.  I am alwaysss cold, as in I wear sweats throughout the summer, so a low of 70 degrees would be nice!  For some reason I’ve always been interested in Arizona even though I’ve never even visited…

5.  What is your dream job?  Whoops, answered this one above- I’d love to be a wedding planner!

6.  Are you a cat or dog person?  Dogs.  All.the.way.

7.  What is your favorite ice cream flavor?  Vanilla bean [and pile on the toppings].

8.  How did you decide the name of your blog?  I could have sworn I heard a quote sometime in my life like “life’s a ball” meaning life is fabulous, but when I asked my momma and Ryan they had no clue what I was talking about so I resorted to the handy-dandy Mr. Google.  When I looked up ”life’s a ball quotes” I found lots of stuff related to…  Baseball.  I like going to baseball games in the summer but LAB is not a baseball blog.

9.  What’s your favorite way to exercise?  Running.  It’s the one time I can totally disconnect from my surroundings and let my thoughts wander.

10.  If you could trade places with a Hollywood star for a day who would it be and why?  I’ve always had a little girl crush on Jennifer Aniston, but recently I’d say Connie Britton from Friday Night Lights.  On the show I think she does a great job balancing her duties as a working woman, a wife, and as a mother, and off-screen I think she would be just as awesome.

11.  Left or right handed?  Right.

12.  Mexican or Italian food?  That’s a tough one…  Mexican, fish tacos.

13.  If you could eat only one food for an entire week, what would it be and why?  Pancakes, hands down.  They’re so versatile…  Savory or sweet, switch up the toppings and you’ve got a whole new meal!

14.  Are you a sweet or savory breakfast person?  Sweet, although I dabble with savory when it comes to brinner [breakfast for dinner].

15.  Are you an early bird or a night owl?  Early bird.  Going to bed past 10PM is a late night for me.

16.  If you could relive one day in your life, what would it be?  Our wedding day, September 3, 2012.  Just as they all say, the day speeds by and before you know it you’ll be married for months…

17.  Red or white wine?  Sparkling or if not, something sweet!

18.  Would you rather lay on the beach or poolside?  Beach.

19.  Name a food you have bought or continue to buy even though it is ridiculously expensive.  Peanut flour, which I’m down to the bare minimum but thankfully my knight in shining armor just messaged me saying that he restocked my addiction- thanks deary!

20.  Are you a planner or “go with the flow?”  I’m definitely a [color coded] planner.

21.  What is something you couldn’t live without?  My family.

11 New Questions [a few repeats from above because I'd love to hear your answers!]:

  1. Who’s your biggest role model?
  2. French toast, pancakes, or waffles?
  3. What’s your favorite TV show?  Favorite movie?
  4. Do you prefer date nights in or to go out?
  5. What’s your worst habit?
  6. Mini golf or bowling?
  7. What’s your biggest pet peeve?
  8. Online shopping or in store shopping?
  9. If you could eat only one food for an entire week, what would it be and why?
  10. What’s your ideal day?
  11. Are you usually early, just on time, or late for events?

Nominations:  All y’all!  No, but seriously…  I can’t begin to thank you enough for all of your support.  Y’all sure know how to put a smile on a girl’s face :)

Today…  #elf4Health 12/6 Day 11:  Lets lift weights! Try an exercise you’ve never done today.  This afternoon I’m planning to head out for a run and followed-up with this no-equipment needed strength routine.

Tomorrow…  #elf4Health 12/7 Day 12:  Go makeup free today!  Show us your natural beauty.  I don’t wear much but I do like putting on some tinted moisturizer, especially in the colder months because my skin gets dry.

Question:  Pick 1, 2, or all 11 of my questions above to answer, more the merrier!

— Allison

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  1. I adore learning more about you, I mean it just makes me more excited and ready for Sunday to come. three more sleeps! in other news, the first picture of you reminds me of saved by the bell, don’t know why. I have to say the next on my try list is peanut flour. I have never had it but can’t wait. my plans for break include checking out this super cheap health store near my home and stocking up. so any suggestions you have I would love to hear them. I feel like your wise wisdom could do me some good with this food rut i am in. oh and thankful for you like no other.

  2. I like your sappy beginning lady ;) And I agree with every word you’ve written about being able to express yourself freely here, so you feel almost more accepted by blends than some others in your life (for me anyway haha). I totally did the holiday themed braces too and the same can be said of many of the foods I LOVE now…I wouldn’t have them without blogs! And I think your dream job is awesome! Is that a possibility at some point??

    • I sure do hope so! I’m not sure that I’d ever be interested in starting my own business because I’d rather be planning and attending the events rather than balancing the books but I’ll find out when the time comes?!

  3. Definitely love you more now!! We’re very alike in our “I can be laid back in some ways but I’m still quite type-A in other ways” type of living. Case in point, I’m an organizer too, and often plan too many things into too short a time to get anywhere on time. It’s strange because I used to be obsessively early (as in, if I was less than 20min early, I considered myself late), but now I’m constantly running for the bus and catching it at the last second or texting yet another person saying I’ll be a few minutes late (it’s usually only 3ish min late, but I still consider it late!). Good to know I’m not alone.
    I totally get what you mean about being a puppy-momma too. My Koda is totally my baby and spends more time in my bed than I do.
    Ps. You’re adorable. Seriously so cute! <3

    • Haha, there are certain times when I’m a bit OCD[?] when it comes to being early to things such as the airport and I blame that on my dad always being late when I was younger… I’ll never forget when we were going to Hawaii and we almost missed our flight because he was late and then got pulled over for speeding :P

  4. I completely agree with you about why blogging friends click so fast and well. We open up so much on our blogs in a way that is scarier in real life, causing us to become close to readers and other bloggers. Definitely something I can’t imagine life without now! I liked reading your survey questions and getting to know you a little. I am a sweets for breakfast all the way except on random mornings I will really feel like eggs and toast. I never really make pancakes though but I do love them.

  5. So glad I have a new blend, too! I love all the facts about yourself – blogging has definitely caused me to start eating interesting combinations of food. I love it, though! I’ve found so many new recipes, and I’ve started to be way more experimental in the kitchen. Lots of fun! I love your color combinations for your braces bands. I was such a nerd and had to match them to my outfits! UGH- so weird!

    • Experimenting in the kitchen is one of my favorite things to do! And to be fair, I’ll warn Ryan when it’s a new “recipe” in case it turns out to be a total flop :P

  6. Thankful for us? Pft! Girrrrlll! I’m super thankful for YOU! How freakin’ much do I love you? I can’t even say, but I’ll lump you up there with bananas, chocolate, and AB as my favorite things :D And can we still be friends if I say that out of french toast, pancakes, and waffles, I would take… waffles? :shock: In my defence, though, it’s probably just because I’m not the greatest at making pancakes. Clearly I need you to come over and cook breakfast for me. Okay? Okay :D

    • Haha, we can still be friends and I’ll make you a sweet stack of ‘cakes if next year you come help me decorate? Or rather, come help me decorate any time of the year!

  7. I’m so glad we are Blends!!! :) You are a breath of fresh air girl! Date nights in are the best for me…. I’m a homebody!!

  8. I had no idea you were adopted, that’s pretty incredible! And the FB contact thing, whoa! Just goes to show you what social media can do nowadays, huh? Lifetime movie for sure. I’m pretty sure you could have left off #1 and said “guess what this is” and I would’ve been able to guess, haha. Life’s a Pancake?!

  9. i love sappy LAB! She goes well with Corny Cotter! So thankful for you. ANd when you have a perfect day, i want to join. K?

  10. Loved reading this post and learning more about you! I think that’s so fascinating that you were adopted, it really is like a Lifetime movie! And I am the exact same way with number 8, need to work on that. Oh and! Connie Britton is basically my hero, I’m kind of obsessed with Mrs. Coach Taylor. I want to be just like her :)

  11. Ahaha yep, blogger fail forgetting to ask you questions. Just look at it as me making your life easier ;)
    I LOVE YOUUU and your blog and your love of pink and lime green (two of my absolute favorite colors too). You better believe my room has tinkerbell green walls. Yes, I did choose a disney color as a junior in high school. I think it’s awesome that you were adopted!
    P.s- can we open a wedding planning business together? I think that would just be the absolute coolest!

  12. Reason #whoevenknowsanymore why we are so similar.. when I had braces I always had to have hot pink & lime green. I even pained my room lime green & hot pink once (did I take it too extreme? Ha Ha). I’m also lucky if I make it up later than 10. Come weekends, I have to literally fight myself to stay awake. Gosh, do I ever sound like an old lady Ha Ha

    I love both mini golf & bowling.. but I’ll have to go with mini golf. It’s much cheaper =)
    If I could eat one food for the rest of the week it’d be some sort of smoothie, or a wrap.
    && I’m always early to events. I hate being late, and I hate when people are late (that’s a pet peeve)

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